Advisors Deliver "Golden Rules" to Class of 2026

by Matt Bailey

Last week the 12th grade advisors hosted an introductory "transition to college" session where each adult had just 60 seconds each to pitch their "Golden Rules" for surviving the big wide world.

The main message? You’re about to be on your own.

Safety First: Taiwan vs. The World

One of the biggest warnings was that the world—specifically the West—is "nothing like" the safety of Kaohsiung. Advisors didn't hold back on the risks of living in an individualistic society:

• Stay Alert: Always be aware of your environment.

  
  

• The Buddy System: Never go out alone; stay with a trusted friend.

  
  

• Plan the Exit: Know how you’re getting home before you even leave.

  
  

• Serious Risks: Fentanyl was flagged as a "very scary" reality for those heading abroad.

  
  

Dorm Life 101: Laundry and Roommates

Before you can pass your classes, you have to pass basic adulting. Advisors urged students to learn how to do their own laundry now. They also warned that sharing a room with someone from a different cultural background requires a high level of respect for shared space.

The secret to not drowning in stress? Time management. Whether it’s a digital calendar or a paper planner, advisors say being in control of your schedule is the only way to actually have freedom in college.

Escape the "Asian Bubble"

For those going overseas, the temptation to stick only with people from similar backgrounds is real. One advisor shared how sticking only to a Korean community while studying in Texas felt safe but eventually became "suffocating" and "toxic".

The advice was clear: submerge yourself in the new culture. Instead of just traveling with expat friends, try getting invited to a local Thanksgiving dinner. Advisors suggested a "Windows and Mirrors" approach—find groups that reflect your identity to stay grounded, but intentionally look through "windows" into other people's lives by sitting with strangers or joining new clubs.

Finding Your Tribe

College is described as a "buffet" of self-discovery. Students were encouraged to express themselves freely and join activities they actually love to "attract their tribe"—people who share their specific values and vibe.

The session ended with a 30-question Kahoot (with snacks as prizes), which was won by Summer Tsai, Justyna Yang and Amber Su.

This was just the kick-off for this group of students and this topic. The advisors will host four more transition sessions (with topics ranging from drugs to getting on with a roommate) over the coming weeks.

The slides are here.